just now while i was in the pantry making mee goreng (yes i'm lazy to go down for lunch on tuesdays cuz i have the whole day free!), one of my gls came in with his gf and they like hestitated for a while before he asked me if i've brought out my tap card. it wasn't with me so i went back to my room to get it and opened the toilet door for his gf. (this is something which me and some other girls in level 3 often do cuz there are quite a number of girlfriends from other blocks or not from this hall)

and then i just have this strange feeling rising up.

we (the og) had a htht session during foc when we were in sentosa after sp night, and he revealed to us that he broke up with his gf during the earlier part of the foc. so we obviously went oh we're so sorry to hear that!

and guess what, a few weeks after the foc, rumours of another girl and him in hall started spreading around. though they weren't quite obvious, i've heard news about it, and at a point of time, i was within the loop of info (ie the girl was talking abt it when i'm arnd). she talked about the 暧昧 things the guy has done etc and back then i was thinking they recovered quite fast (for the girl had ended a relationship either prior or in the midst of the rumours)

just as abruptly the rumours had started, the rumours ended. and a few more weeks later, the girl started visiting another room at lvl3 more frequently and one night when i saw the new guy ran upstairs with a framed puzzle (of mickey and minnie mouse sitting on a terrace overlooking the beautiful view of santorini). i was damn sure that was the night which marked the start of a new relationship.

as if to compete with the girl, the guy got together with another girl and brought her to hall during the december holidays. somehow i just have this feeling that the guy was multi-tasking within the 3plus month period, or he wasn't even serious with the girl at all. on top of that, i've always heard things about him being womanizer and stuff, so i guess i've a fixed impression of him.

as for the girl..i don't know if i should say she recovers very quickly, or she didn't put in alot of feelings into the relationships, considering how quickly she had switched from one to another. or maybe it's because we are in a hostel. we see the people on a almost daily basis, so it's easier to 日久生情? (which is why there are many couples in hall, and why there's such a term called the first sem syndrome - where the freshies and the laojiaos met and live together in the same hall/block?)

or maybe like what 单无双, and many people in the older generation thinks, us 七年级生 (ie those borned from 1980s and beyond) falls in and out of love too easily - thus the term 速食爱情 came along. though i must say there are also healthy examples around, like xueshen and his gf.

or maybe it's just how individuals view this strange thing called love.
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